Wedding cliches stretch far and wide, and you really notice this at the reception speeches. Ever heard the "joke" where whoever is giving the speech has the groom put his hand atop the brides on the table and says something along the lines of "and that's the last time you'll have the upper hand in this relationship"? This little skit must have a high ranking on Google for "wedding speech jokes". Another one is when the newly-weds have been together for a very long time. The whole "it's about time", "what took you so long", "'bout time you made it official" hullaballoo is an easy angle for cracking a few jokes. We've heard it at quite a few weddings by now. But not at Jenny and Joel's.