THE WHOLE CITYCasey & Jordan

July 5, 2023

Casey and Jordan did not book a venue. They booked Copenhagen. They got ready in a flat, drank coffee at a bar, married each other in a museum, took a boat through the canals, and ended the day in Tivoli under a rainbow. No aisle, no seating plan, nothing running to a clock. If you have ever wondered whether a whole city can be the wedding, this is the answer, and Copenhagen gives it easily.

Copenhagen

A city works for this when it is small enough to cross on foot, good-looking on the average street, and relaxed enough that nobody stares at a woman in a wedding dress buying a coffee. Copenhagen is all three. Casey and Jordan treated the whole place as theirs for the day, and nobody told them otherwise.

Bicycles parked in the streets of Copenhagen A cyclist passing a building in Copenhagen A cyclist and a street mural in Copenhagen Copenhagen apartment blocks seen from above Danish flags against a blue sky in Copenhagen
A copper church spire in CopenhagenA church tower in Copenhagen

The morning

It started in a flat, with coffee and an open window and no one rushing. There was a guidebook on the table, as if they were tourists at their own wedding. In a way they were.

A Copenhagen guidebook on the morning of the elopement Casey and Jordan getting ready together in Copenhagen The bride in window light before her Copenhagen elopement Coffee and details in a Copenhagen flat

Out into the city

First stop was a coffee bar, and they took it slowly, the way you should. While they talked I worked the room: the barista, the light coming through, a man in a hat sitting under a mounted motorcycle who had no idea he was at a wedding. Copenhagen is full of rooms like that. It is why the city rewards wandering.

A Danish cafe sign in Copenhagen Enghave Kaffe, a coffee shop in Copenhagen The couple at a Copenhagen coffee bar Casey and Jordan at a coffee bar in Copenhagen The couple laughing over drinks in a Copenhagen cafe A stranger in a hat beneath an old motorcycle in a Copenhagen cafe The barista at a Copenhagen coffee shop The bride with her bouquet at a Copenhagen bar Black and white bride portrait in Copenhagen

The ceremony

They got married inside a museum, in a room the colour of ochre with a stone frieze running the length of the ceiling. Just the two of them, the person marrying them, and the witnesses. Rings, vows, a few tears nobody tried to stop, a signature to make it real. It was short, and it held more than plenty of weddings I have watched fill a whole afternoon.

Casey and Jordan facing each other during the ceremony Exchanging rings during the museum ceremony in Copenhagen An emotional moment during the Copenhagen ceremony The couple embracing after the ceremony Shaking hands with the officiant after the ceremony Signing the marriage register in Copenhagen Exchanging rings during a Copenhagen elopement

The museum

Afterwards the place was theirs to walk through. Long white halls of sculpture, cold marble, warm light, and not another soul in them. Fresh from the ceremony and already the best-dressed people in a museum full of gods.

The couple in a gallery at a Copenhagen museum The bride in a sculpture hall at a Copenhagen museum The bride beside a lion sculpture in the museum
The bride framed in a museum doorwayThe bride among the sculptures in Copenhagen

The boat

Then a boat, one of the small open ones you steer yourself, out into the canals. Under bridges low enough to duck for, past the painted houses at Nyhavn, waving at strangers who waved back. I will say it plainly: renting a boat is one of the best hours you can spend in this city, wedding or not.

The couple on a canal boat under a bridge in Copenhagen Laughing aboard a canal boat in Copenhagen Bride and groom embracing on a canal boat Casey and Jordan driving a boat through the Copenhagen canals

Across the city

Back on dry land the day kept unspooling. The grand old facades, the black glass of the library at the water’s edge, Nyhavn and its postcard row of houses, and a couple in wedding clothes threading through all of it while the tourists looked straight past them.

Bride and groom small against a grand Copenhagen building The couple at the Black Diamond library in Copenhagen The coloured houses of Nyhavn in Copenhagen Bride and groom by the canal at Nyhavn, Copenhagen The couple laughing on a Copenhagen street Black and white portrait of the couple by the Copenhagen canal

Tivoli

By late afternoon it was Tivoli, the old gardens dropped into the middle of the city. Hydrangeas, a pond of fat koi, a rowing boat, a goose that held its ground against everyone, and the pirate ship swinging past behind them. It should be too much. Somehow it is exactly enough.

Tivoli Gardens in the middle of CopenhagenA rowing boat at Tivoli Gardens, Copenhagen
A goose and gosling at Tivoli Gardens in Copenhagen
The couple in the gardens at Tivoli, CopenhagenBride and groom backlit in the Tivoli gardens
Bride and groom holding hands in the Tivoli gardens Koi in a pond at Tivoli Gardens, Copenhagen The pirate ship ride at Tivoli Gardens, Copenhagen

Evening light

By evening the sun had dropped low and gone gold against the brick, so I kept them in it as long as it lasted.

The couple in a misty archway in the Copenhagen evening light Bride and groom in the evening light in Copenhagen

The end of the day

After that it was small things and quiet streets. A bow tie coming undone, a new tattoo still red on a finger, cafe tables filling for the evening. On the walk home a rainbow came out over the rooftops, which, for the record, I did not arrange.

The groom's bow tie and boutonniere in Copenhagen A finger tattoo after the Copenhagen elopement A Let's Meet In Real Life sign in Copenhagen A Copenhagen cafe in the evening A cyclist in Copenhagen A Copenhagen street by the canal A rainbow over Copenhagen at the end of the day

Casey and Jordan spent their wedding day walking a city instead of standing in a room, and it beat any ballroom I have stood in. That is the entire pitch. If you want a Copenhagen wedding photographer for a day like this one, anywhere the short flights and ferries reach, write to me. I would go back tomorrow.

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